How To Be Dateable

The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love

By: Julie Krafchick, Yue Xu

Narrated by: Julie Krafchick, Yue Xu

Does dating feel like an endless maze with no way out? Find your person with this actionable, compassionate guide that will help you break free from the traps of modern dating and change your approach to love.

As creators and hosts of the hit dating podcast Dateable, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu have made breaking down the nuances of the ever-evolving dating world and empowering the people within it their purpose and passion. Drawing on a decade’s worth of research from speaking to thousands of daters and world-renowned experts, Julie and Yue have learned what it takes to find love in today’s dating world. In How to Be Dateable, they’ll show you how to take control of your love life and focus on the levers that actually get you results.

Starting with a personalized dating archetypes quiz, this book will give you a richer understanding of your core dating strengths and how to turn around the obstacles that are keeping you from meeting the right people. You will discover how to:

-Feel more optimistic about finding love
-Choose partners who are aligned with your values
-Prioritize what’s in your control and release what’s not
-Date your way to find the right relationship for you

Written with the knowledge of experts and the warmth of a wise best friend, How to Be Dateable will give you a dating life that can ultimately help you find the I-can’t-believe-this-was-possible type of relationship you deserve.

The real deal for dating today!

It was like listening to all the best parts of the Dateable podcast over the last 5 years in one place. People, this is dating advice GOLD!! These ladies helped to change my entire experience of not only dating over the last few years, but also how I approach friendships, co workers, my clients, family, myself. The advice in this book is truly what we all need these days to get past all the dating games, and start to show up as who we really are, unafraid to attract what we really want in a partner. So, so good.

The perfect companion to the podcast

I have been listening to dateable for years and I have learned so much about myself and also how to cut through the bs in online dating to find the good ones. There’s even a mention of one of my comments in the book (I’m the one who stopped asking people if they like hiking :)). While I’m still out there searching, this book was the perfect refresher for me as I head out on my first date after ending a long term relationship with someone who showed me they weren’t ready for the same level of commitment I was. So grateful for this duo and I cant recommend this book enough.

THE no bull$hit book on dating

THANK GOD! Finally.

I found THE NO bull$hit book/guide on how to date in today's word even if you only have crumb of hope left in your heart.

Love this! Such helpful advice

I really enjoyed this book! I found the advice thought provoking, easy to follow, and practical.

best dating book ever

I've been dating for years and if this book had been around when I started it would have saved me so much wasted time and effort.