I Broke My Own Heart Waiting for You to Choose Me

How to Stop Hoping for Someone Who Will Never Be Ready

By: Lena Hartley

Narrated by: Virtual Voice

You didn’t get closure — you got silence. And in that silence, you stayed. Hoping. Waiting. Loving.

This is for the woman who gave her heart to someone emotionally unavailable.
For the one who kept believing “one day they’ll see my worth.”
For the one who kept showing up — while slowly falling apart inside.

I Broke My Own Heart Waiting for You to Choose Me is not about them.
It’s about you.

In this heartfelt, healing guide, Lena Hartley walks you through the quiet ache of loving someone who never chose you — and the even braver act of finally choosing yourself.

You’ll learn how to:
✅ Recognize the patterns that kept you stuck
✅ Let go of the “potential” you fell in love with
✅ Rebuild the version of you that shrank for love
✅ Create peace instead of clinging to hope
✅ Love again — without losing yourself

If you’ve been told you’re “too emotional,” “too patient,” or “too much” — this book is your homecoming.

📌 Because love should not feel like a waiting room.
It should feel like a place where your heart is safe.

And this time, it starts with you.

wish I found this 8 mo ago

it is all things I am realizing now, a must have for anyone going through a doubtful relationship.

Felt as future me wrote this book

This book is absolutely amazing!!! Every
single chapter felt as if the healed me had written it. The perspective of what real love should look like is all I desire. Not a perfect one but one full of respect and understanding. Accountability and growth. I will definitely read this again and again and recommend it 100%!

Very relatable

Overall good advice to move forward a little repetitive, however I think what she was doing was drilling our worth into your heads! Great book!

finding yourself after a toxic breakup

it's a good one to listen to if you took the breakup hard. if you struggle with love and dependency

What love really is!!!!

Absolutely recommend!! So liberating and helps you to learn what love is!!! Self-love and its importance in our lives!!! Love love love!!!