Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

By: Ramani Durvasula PhD

Narrated by: Ramani Durvasula PhD

Do you feel like you are talking and talking, and your partner is never listening?

Do you feel like you keep saying the same thing over and over again?

Does your partner make promises, only to break or betray your trust repeatedly?

Is your partner controlling or just plain mean?

Have you read every relationship book out there, practiced your communication skills, and still feel unheard or neglected?

Are you done with second chances?

Should you stay or should you go?

We live in a world of romance and rescue - where everyone believes love will conquer all, and the more we put up with, the more loving we are being. It doesn't work that way. Sometimes we choose mean people, and before long we are in so deep, we don't know whether we are coming or going. One day you want to fight harder, and the next day you are ready to pack it in, and the next day you want to fight harder.

Should I Stay or Should I Go? is a survival manual, a guidebook, and a shot of reality. Some people will never change, and kissing frogs is the stuff of fairy tales, not real life. The Beast never turns out to be a nice guy (or gal). This is a book that breaks down what mean people do to us, how they do it, and what we can do to survive.

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Wake up call !

This audio book really hit home for me. It was like it was a story about my life, literally. I now realize how and why I have been suffering for decades. I knew something was wrong but didn't realize the extent of it. Listening to this book on audio was more powerful than reading it because hearing Dr Durvasula beautifully explain herself really was empowering for me. Also, listening to this book in the privacy of my car while driving about was much safer than being caught by my narcissist with such a book in my possession. Thank you!

Can’t live without it

I’ve listened to many books on the topic I wish I found this one years ago. Definitely worth it and will be listening on repeat.

A terrifyingly pragmatic and helpful book!

This book provides invaluable insight into who is a Narcissist and why a Narcissist is not capable of changing. It provides hope and insight to those who choose to stay or go, with h the understanding that you must accept your partner as he/she is.

Good information

This book was a bit repetitive , reader was a flatly monotone .Good information though .

Helpful, very helpful.

It's nice to make sense of everything I'm thinking so i can make an informed decision. I would recommend if for no other reason than to understand the what's missing. I've never felt confusion or frustration like I have in this relationship; I feel better just knowimg they whys behind my frustration. so thank you for your book. it probably kept me from living a miserable life having just graduated college and getting ready to settle down. You're right relationships shouldn't be hard work they should be the best part of your day.