Janna delves into the complexities of ghosting and the silent treatment, particularly in the context of dismissive avoidant behavior in relationships. She shares her personal experiences and insights on how these behaviors stem from emotional immaturity and defense mechanisms rooted in childhood. She highlights the emotional turmoil faced by those on the receiving end of such treatment and offers guidance on how to cope and respond effectively. Janna emphasizes the importance of self-worth and the need to establish boundaries in relationships plagued by such dynamics.

"If they want silence so much, give them motherfucking silence."

Notes

00:00 Understanding Ghosting and Silent Treatment

10:25 The Emotional Impact on Victims

17:00 Dealing with Dismissive Avoidants

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Janna discusses the profound connection between gut health and mental well-being, particularly in the context of overcoming narcissistic abuse. She emphasizes the importance of trusting one's intuition, which is often compromised by toxic relationships and stress. Janna shares her personal journey of healing from chronic Lyme disease and emotional trauma, highlighting the role of nutrition and mindset in achieving overall health. Janna also touches on the impact of stress on gut health and the necessity of breaking free from toxic relationships to restore both physical and mental health.

“The red flags you see are real!”

Notes:

00:00 The Gut-Brain Connection: Trusting Your Intuition

02:35 Healing from Narcissistic Abuse and Gut Health

05:10 Understanding Red Flags in Toxic Relationships

07:52 The Impact of Stress on Gut Health

10:16 Nutrition and Emotional Well-being

12:50 The Journey to Healing and Self-Discovery

15:19 Strengthening Intuition Through Healing

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In this episode, Janna dives deep into the connection between toxic relationships and gut health. As a mindset expert, nutritionist, and narcissistic abuse expert, Janna shares her personal journey of overcoming chronic Lyme disease and how it shaped her understanding of wellness.

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"It's time that we start to put ourselves first, that we start to set boundaries in our lives and pull the weeds out."

[00:02:27] Kitchen renovations and upgrades.

[00:07:18] Toxicity in our gut.

[00:09:25] Toxic relationships and gut health.

[00:12:38] Gut health and autoimmune diseases.

[00:18:22] Toxic relationships and gut health.

[00:20:39] Letting go of relationships.

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In this episode, Janna discusses the topic of defense mechanisms and their impact on our lives. Janna shares her personal insights and experiences with the destruction of these psychological tools. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing defense mechanisms, as they can lead to significant emotional challenges. Tune in for a candid conversation about overcoming adversity and advocating for your own wellness.

"Run with your assumptions, motherfucker. Live with them."

Notes:

[00:01:41] Defense mechanisms in relationships.

[00:05:40] Childhood trauma and communication issues.

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In this episode, Janna dives deep into the impact of assumptions on our lives and relationships. From missed opportunities to the breakdown of communication, assumptions can hold us back from true happiness and connection. Janna shares her personal journey of overcoming limiting beliefs and how assumptions often stem from our own insecurities and fears. Join Janna for insights and practical advice to help you break free from the cycle of assumptions and embrace a more fulfilling life.

"How many relationships have ended in your life because of assumptions, how many relationships that could have been amazing for you never happened because of assumptions?"

Notes:

[00:02:34] Assumptions in relationships.

[00:04:23] Assumptions and their consequences.

[00:09:40] Assumptions limit opportunities and peace.

[00:14:36] Assumptions in relationships and communication.

[00:17:05] Defense mechanisms in relationships.

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In this episode, Janna delves into the complexities of relationships and how to determine if they can withstand the test of time. Whether you're in a new romance or have been together for years, Janna addresses common concerns about relationship longevity. Drawing from her own experiences, including a tumultuous divorce and past toxic relationships, she emphasizes that wisdom comes not with age, but from actively learning from our experiences. Tune in to discover key insights and tests to evaluate the strength and future of your relationship.

"What is said in the calm moments cannot keep a relationship strong. It's what is said, done, shown, and given in the heated moments."

Notes:

[00:01:10] Relationship longevity insights.

[00:05:50] Empty promises in relationships.

[00:10:41] Relationship challenges and personal growth.

[00:12:20] Handling difficult times in relationships.

[00:16:07] Self-reflection and personal growth.

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In this episode, Janna dives into the topic of handling sensitive and defensive individuals, drawing from her own experiences of being triggered in the past. Janna emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and acknowledges that while past experiences can shape our responses, it is ultimately our responsibility to change those patterns. Tune in to learn how to become your wellness advocate and take steps toward healing and personal growth.

"I'm not going to change what I actually said to appease your assumptions in order to keep you from having a temper tantrum."

Notes:

[00:01:18] Triggers and defensiveness in healing.

[00:05:11] Dealing with defensive people.

[00:10:20] Defensive behavior and healing.

[00:12:31] Defense mechanisms and toxic relationships.

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In this episode, Janna opens up about the challenges she's faced recently and the importance of taking ownership of our lives. Life can throw unexpected curveballs, and it's easy to fall into the trap of blaming others for our struggles. Janna shares her personal experiences and insights on how to break free from the cycle of blame and embrace forgiveness as a path to healing. Join Janna as she navigates adversity and emphasizes the importance of showing up for oneself amidst life's chaos.

"As long as you're blaming other people, you can't move forward in life."

Notes:

[00:02:48] Stop blaming others.

[00:06:34] Taking ownership of your life.

[00:08:41] The power of forgiveness.

[00:12:37] Overcoming victim mindset.

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