We Do

Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection, and Enduring Love

By: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT

Narrated by: Matthew Boston

"If you and your prospective partner adopt the principles and skills I describe here, your relationship will be successful - not just for starters, but for the long run."

An indispensable guide for any couple ready to set the foundation for a loving and lasting union.

Committing fully to a loving partnership - a "we" - can be one of the most beautiful and fulfilling experiences you'll ever have. Yet as anyone in a long-term relationship will tell you, it can also be one of the most challenging. Almost half of all first marriages end in divorce, and chances go down from there. So how do you beat the odds?

"All successful long-term relationships are secure relationships," writes psychotherapist Stan Tatkin. "You and your partner take care of each other in a way that ensures you both feel safe, protected, accepted, and secure at all times."

In We Do, Tatkin provides a groundbreaking guide for couples. You'll figure out whether you and your partner are right for each other in the long term, and if so, give your relationship a strong foundation so you can enjoy a secure and lasting love.

©2018 Stan Tatkin (P)2019 Tantor

Amazing!

Couldn’t stop listening, so many good nuggets, will listen a second time, it is just that good!

Stan should always narrate his work

Another great book by Stan Tatkin, but I wish he would’ve narrated it. This narrator sounds like Casey Kasem from America’s Top 40 countdown. It’s a great voice for a DJ, but he doesn’t have the same intellectual and emotional connection that Stan has with his work that provides so much more depth and meaning. When Stan narrates his own work, the content is far more impactful and captivating.

Great Material

Material was fantastic. The narrator was challenging to listen to but worth struggling through for the wisdom.

The relevance of the material as it pertains to me and how I’m not being a good partner-but trying.

The narrator did an excellent job.
The author did substantial research and presented convincing data and methods to explain the value of “we do instead of I do”. I highly recommend this book for couples who both want to and need to become more bonded and grateful.

Must to read before getting married

Love all Dr.Tatkin books! It must read for everyone before or after marriage. Everyone thinks love and romantic come naturally like in the movies. The Good relationship did come naturally. Usually, you have to work for and educate herself.
Wonderful book!